Solo dates have become more popular amongst the girlies, but finding solo activities can be a little intimidating. But before you make yet another excuse as to why you haven’t started dating yourself, let me put you on to some of the best solo date activities.
And if you’ve gotten this far and you don’t know what a solo date is, babe where have you been?! A solo date is exactly what it sounds like, a date you go on solo. Alone. No partner, no friends, no facetime. Just you, your thoughts and preferably your best attitude and outfit.
So sorry to my fellow introverts and homebodies, but these activities will require you to actually leave your house.
Although it may sound daunting to some, there is such a beauty in taking yourself on solo dates. But it first comes with finding the right activities. And, it doesn’t matter what your relationship status is, you can always date yourself. I highly recommend it, especially because it has so many benefits.
Benefits of Solo Dating
I’ve taken myself on a few solo dates and each time I come back with fresh revelation. I won’t fully dive into the importance of dating yourself because that is a topic I’ve already written about. But I will say, I’ve continued to learn so much about myself.
The main benefit of solo dating is spending much needed quality time with yourself. In a world that normalizes business and constant human interaction, it may be hard to get some alone time with yourself. And if you’re never alone with yourself, there’s a good chance you may never have uninterrupted time to reflect. Solo dates allow you that time.
If you’re like me, you probably have a list of places you want to go, but sometimes there’s just no one to go with. But now there is, and that person is you. So long are the days of waiting to go to that bomb new restaurant because your friends didn’t have babysitters. Go with yourself and your mini tripod babe. If we’re being real, you know how to capture your angles at the dinner table better than anyone else.
Last but not least, it’s a confidence booster. Somewhere in between mustering the courage to check things off your bucket list and not having to wait on anyone to do them, you make yourself proud.
Now on to the real reason you’re here: solo date activities.
Solo Date Activities
- Museums/ Art Gallery: Perfect for the artsy and creative babies. Self guided tours or group tours of local museums or art galleries are the perfect solo activity. You get to take in the beauty and vibes without someone there to rush or distract you. Don’t forget to check for free days/discount days and special exhibits.
- Take A Class: Pottery/ Spinning, Painting, Cooking, Candle Making or an exercise class are just a few. Classes are an excellent way to spend your time alone. You get to learn a new skill, maybe go home with something and you get a dope experience.
- Picnic: The girls that love picnics just get it. Pack up your favorite blanket, snacks and drinks. I recommend bringing a journal, book or your favorite podcast along.
- Movies: This one works as an indoor or outdoor solo date. But the challenge is in going out because watching Netflix on your couch is too easy. Catch a matinee or a late night movie.
- Spa Day: Nothing says self love better than self care. Pro Tip: Look on Groupon for discounts on spas near you.
- Concert/ Shows: One of my favorite solo dates thus far has been attending a worship concert by myself. It was awkward, awesome and liberating all in one. Whether you are attending a concert, poetry night or a comedy show, it may feel awkward at first. But being in the moment, by yourself is so worth it.
- Go Out To Eat: This one seems to be the most popular activity, but also very nerve-wrecking. A lot of people fear being deemed as the lonely person eating alone. Bringing a book/journal or a tablet helps. Sitting at the bar provides a weird level of comfort as well.
- Botanical Gardens/ Plant Conservatory: There’s so much beauty in nature. Go be one with the plants while you’re also one with yourself. Zen, my friend.
- Drive and Vibe: Take a drive and play your favorite playlist. Heart to hearts in parked cars is probably one of my unspoken love languages. And although you’re solo dolo, you can still take some time to reflect and affirm yourself.
- Find Hidden Gems In Your City (or near by): There is no greater place to explore than your own city. It’s local so it naturally feels more comforting and familiar. Look up events on your city websites or a town nearby. Find bookstores, music events, etc. Also– not exactly a date, but going to buy yourself flowers or some treat is still considered a solo date activity.
Now that you know some of the benefits of solo dating and you have solo date activities under your belt, go date yourself bestie. And if you have any other cool ideas for a solo date, leave them in the comments and share with the rest of us!
